It should come to little or know surprise to some of you that I was a total party animal (pronounced social retard) in my early days.
I am a few years past that lifestyle and although I reflect back on that time with the same joy that watching "Animal House" brings, it is hard to shake the legend. Not that I am looking to forget my past. I am maybe looking to apologize and looking for a little glimpse of atonement.
Now here I am trying to live a better life and be a better person. Using my past as motivation of what not to do in life.
I really love tales of drunken escapades and have many, many of my own and they are sacred and I love them like my children. However, how do I explain to someone not to make the same mistakes I made without looking like a hypocrite because I am still in love with about 75% of the shit I did in my former life?
Another thing I have been wrestling with is the perceived double standard between men and women when it comes to casual sex. It is funny how the more women a man sleeps with makes him some sort of social hero yet if a woman sleeps around she is a low grade whore.
I have been thinking about this a lot lately. I have reconciled this by not believing the double standard. It is a higher standard. Women have a lot more at stake in this department. It is not the man who is gonna get pregnant and the worse case scenario for the man is that he is paying child support for the next eighteen years. Clearly the biggest part of the responsibility falls on the shoulders of the woman.
Miked
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Monday, February 22, 2010
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
You Remind Me Of Someone....Until You Open Your Mouth
Have you ever met someone that you really wanted to like because their mannerisms and physical features reminded you of someone you regarded as super cool?
And then, and then this person opens their mouth and you are shocked back to reality by the fact that this person is really nothing like the person you'd hoped. It can be quite the bummer.
Miked
Copyright 2010 Dunbridge Truckstop Global Media
And then, and then this person opens their mouth and you are shocked back to reality by the fact that this person is really nothing like the person you'd hoped. It can be quite the bummer.
Miked
Copyright 2010 Dunbridge Truckstop Global Media
Monday, January 4, 2010
Suit Up
It only seemed puzzling to Fran. But she could tell it was of an ordinary trust. Binding hammers in such a fashion that only the splinters would leave marks. Wise to the the touch, and fascinated by the sheer mention of it. Melancholy in its highest form caused by the smallest of cravings. Reliability that claimed Henry the Gatekeeper. Frost, tingling with a dry crispness set the tone for what could only be called motionless. Pleasantly thinking aloud would just not work this time. You know? Will Swiss time feel any different?
Miked
Published with permission. Copyright 2004 Dunbridge Truckstop Global Media
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Sorry This Took So Long
This one comes to us courtesy of The Original Beefstu.
Copyright 2009 Dunbridge Truckstop Global Media
Copyright 2009 Dunbridge Truckstop Global Media
Comin Up On It.
With glasses so full of nostalgia it is hard not to get choked up.
Memories kept alive by the people who are not.
Tales told and fates resolved.
Hearts warmed by a past burning bright as the present.
And yet we're all coming up on it.
Every day closer, every day becoming more folklore.
Overwhelming joy and camaraderie even through a lack of understanding.
Glimpses of a great history repeating itself.
Time has locked the away even the most ardent gavel.
You know you would stop lauging if you could.
And yet we're all coming up on it.
Every day closer, every day becoming more folklore.
The Miked
Copyright 2009 Dunbridge Truckstop Global Media
Memories kept alive by the people who are not.
Tales told and fates resolved.
Hearts warmed by a past burning bright as the present.
And yet we're all coming up on it.
Every day closer, every day becoming more folklore.
Overwhelming joy and camaraderie even through a lack of understanding.
Glimpses of a great history repeating itself.
Time has locked the away even the most ardent gavel.
You know you would stop lauging if you could.
And yet we're all coming up on it.
Every day closer, every day becoming more folklore.
The Miked
Copyright 2009 Dunbridge Truckstop Global Media
Five Songs
Today's songs happen to all be but The Tragically Hip.
"Throwing Off Glass"
"Fully Completely"
"The Luxury" - For Beth S
"Silver Jet"
"Grace, Too"
Look em up and enjoy.
Merry Christmas
The Miked
"Throwing Off Glass"
"Fully Completely"
"The Luxury" - For Beth S
"Silver Jet"
"Grace, Too"
Look em up and enjoy.
Merry Christmas
The Miked
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Thank Your Fathers Evolver.
As a person tries to grow, provided they do want to grow as a person, do we try to hold on to the past? Maybe we should hold on to different bits and pieces so that we are reminded not to make the same mistakes again? Maybe we should forgot the past and only concentrate our efforts on the future and progressing forward.
There are certain aspects of my past that I really do enjoy peeking in on from time to time. Yet there are other parts of my past that I know are best tucked away and left alone.
Recently I had a little piece of my past thrust into my face and although it was only slightly unpleasant it really cemented to me that deep down I really can make excellent character judgments. It also lets me see that sometimes right or wrong my actions can have an impact on other people lives. I know people are not perfect and we all make mistakes and for me leaving these people in the past was the way I chose to deal with the problem. I think it is what we choose to do with these experiences it what ultimately allows room for growth.
This leads me to the question: Can all be forgiven and can the past change and become part of the future again. OK so this is really two questions but I make the rules here. Can people change? Can your past become part of your future? I am going to have to chew on this a little more. I think I really know the answers to these questions in this particular case. But wonders never cease!
The Miked
There are certain aspects of my past that I really do enjoy peeking in on from time to time. Yet there are other parts of my past that I know are best tucked away and left alone.
Recently I had a little piece of my past thrust into my face and although it was only slightly unpleasant it really cemented to me that deep down I really can make excellent character judgments. It also lets me see that sometimes right or wrong my actions can have an impact on other people lives. I know people are not perfect and we all make mistakes and for me leaving these people in the past was the way I chose to deal with the problem. I think it is what we choose to do with these experiences it what ultimately allows room for growth.
This leads me to the question: Can all be forgiven and can the past change and become part of the future again. OK so this is really two questions but I make the rules here. Can people change? Can your past become part of your future? I am going to have to chew on this a little more. I think I really know the answers to these questions in this particular case. But wonders never cease!
The Miked
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